Sometimes I catch myself having done some task, only to realize my accomplishment was very little, I took the easy way through my day. If I want to break out of the daily (often mundane) routine, it takes work. I have to be intentional about the steps as I grow. I need to push to become more of what I was designed to be.
I believe we each have God-given gifts, talents, and purpose. All of our gifts are unique to us as individuals. Outside of ourselves, no one can tell us the fullness of our purpose. We have each been placed here, on this earth, at this time, for a reason. We are not random, we are not generic, we are uniquely and carefully crafted. It takes intentional work and focus to find our purpose…the reason for our existence.
In your journey, whatever you do, do not give up on yourself and what you were designed to accomplish.
Being intentional is about taking one step at a time. If you want to lose weight, be intentional about being more physically fit. What is one step you can take today, towards better physical fitness? Repeat that step each day, and systematically add another step next week. If you want to be better at relationships, what is one step you can take today towards showing someone you care for them? Let that become a monthly or weekly pattern, intentionally repeating the intent. Start with one step…just one…today, do not wait for tomorrow, next week, next month, a New Years’ resolution.
Being intentional is not complex. It does not take a monumental effort. It is about simple things done with a purpose or goal. It will not include taking the easy route. It demands breaking out of a less healthy routine, replacing it with something better. Making a lifetime of small changes.
The best athletes, greatest families, best public speakers, and strongest leaders did not get there overnight. Nor did they get there on their own. Every one of them, as part of their normal life, is being coached and mentored by others. Having someone to help you stay focused and intentional is key. If I want to be better at an area in my life, I need to find someone who will come alongside me and encourage or if needed push me out of my comfort zone.
This is the first in a series of three posts, where I will address the need for intentionality, discipline, and purpose in a significant life. In my previous post, I shared how motivation is not all we are led to believe.
While you wait for my next post, here is something to consider. I am offering my services to those who may be interested in leadership mentoring or coaching. If you have an interest, feel free to start a conversation with me at todd@toddrthomsen.com.